Awww.....(shucks, she says...lol)....thanks you guys! I'm sorry I've let so much time go by. I have missed you all! We had pre-wedding, then wedding, then wedding-recovery, then both of us got sick and then Thanksgiving...and we are trying to work and I'm in grad school.
So...it's been nuts.
Will update more on difficult child later. He is doing much better, and we are guardedly optimistic. One day at a time, right?