I would file the "B Saga" under "Bad Experiences That I Never Want to Think About Again" and let it be a learning experience. Kids are not normally thrownout of their homes because of Bad Daddy and
Mommy. It is usually because they are completely
out of control and impossible to live with and even dangerous. They have probably had hundreds of
chances to straighten out, but didn't. It probably
broke their parents hearts to make B leave. There are two sides to every story.
I tune it out and sing in my head, "La, la, la, I'm not listening."
Let this be a warning to anyone who comes across
these forums in the future... that even letting someone stay at your house for a day could wind up in
such catastrophe and who knows what else would
have happened had I not caught her right away.