We've managed to find a new place to move. It's in another town with police that actually care and decent people. We'd be out of the home my dad and brother own, a little distance between us and my family, and in a much nicer home. There are so many good points to this move. BUT difficult child is driving me insane about it. He doesn't want to move. He doesn't want to be in a different town where he can't just ride his bike to visit Grandma (who he adores). He doesn't want to have to wait for me to be able to drive him to visit his friends. He doesn't want to start over. Any ideas for making it a bit less stressful for both of us? He fights changes. Always has and probably always will. I keep reminding him that he'll be able to get his license in February and he already has a car waiting for him - that helps for a little while but then he starts worrying about between now and then. Seems I can't win, but this move is an absolute must for us!