Hi everyone.. We believe our 3 year old is ODD. I'd like to link up with some other parents to learn more about it and get some support. Up until now I have felt like I am losing my mind and that somehow it's not "his" fault.. it's because I'm a bad parent and can't understand him. Now that we're learning about ODD... I'm at least feeling like there are answers to all these questions we've had. This behavior has been exhausting and depressing for me. My husband has been deployed 17 months now and we have 4 children that I stay home with (I work from home). Our kids are 9,4,3, and 1. My 3 year old just makes things nearly impossible. I'm hoping to connect with other parents for support.