I have a 5 year old daughter. She is an angel at school. No trouble at dance. Great for the grandparents and babysitters. But with her dad & I at home, she loses it when the word NO comes out. Screaming matches for hours. Throwing anything she can get her hands on. Crying and screaming til she coughs and pukes everywhere. This has been going on for months. Several a week, especially on the weekends. There has not been one good weekend without a bad tantrum. I just don't know what to do. Where do I start to attempt to get her some help? My pediatrician thinks she will grow out of it, but she is not the mom crying herself to sleep everynight wondering where we went wrong.... My husband used to give in to her just to stop the screaming, but he has really stepped up and now that she sees he is not as compliant to whatever her demands are that time, it gets even uglier. I am worried our marriage can't survive this. Any advice would be appreciated. We are in NC and I don't know anyone that can recommend any therapists or doctors.