My daughter was recently diagnosed with ODD, Anxiety-which then brings on some ADHD. We are in transition from changing to the new ways of helping her from the way we did things for 4yrs. We have never been able to happily travel with her. As explained by the Psychiatrist, she doesn't have the ability to process change very well. This makes vacations and such very difficult. While we have had a positive result at home with the recent changes we have made, we are getting ready for a trip. In a couple of weeks, we are going to the coast, which is about 4hours away. We are celebrating her sister's second birthday. Past trips have been horrid for us and have been very reluctant to take her anywhere.When traveling, there is always something new and changes. How do we help her gain control and transition into the different settings? Thank you in advance. We are really looking forward to a great family vacation..if we are successful in helping her, it will be the first "happy" vacation we have ever had!