I really do not know how to start this post~I will do my best, pls bare with me I will try...
I am a mother of 2 both married (girls), 3 grandchildren, a little about me, I was raised by my grandmother & uncle (her son) I was abandon by my real parents, both parents were alcoholics, mother seen a few weeks each year I do not have good memories of our relationship, but I loved her she had a illness, I beleive that is why I promised to myself I would do the opposite of her when I had children. I grew up fast on my own @ 16 yrs old due to my grandmother had a stoke & was moved to a home, & living with my wonderful Uncle was out of the question in does days it was inproper..
I have no family, all passed away years ago, I had only my 2 beautilful girls who now are married with children,
I married, unfortunately marriage ended after 20 yrs my choice I had many hurdles but stayed strong, I always said when I was asked how did I cope my respond to that was, I was born in stress & learn how to cope & move on & not look back, When I divorced my priority 1st above all were my girls, 2nd my job to maintain my family, I did honor my promise to myself, I do not drink & never will & made sure to protect my children & love, protect them get involved with whatever they participated in be there to support them, without a doubt I do feel I gave them the best of myself, I do admit I was strict with rules after all I was raising girls but I did spoil them but I always made sure when I ground them I never gave in,reason it was important to me discipline
I am a mother of 2 both married (girls), 3 grandchildren, a little about me, I was raised by my grandmother & uncle (her son) I was abandon by my real parents, both parents were alcoholics, mother seen a few weeks each year I do not have good memories of our relationship, but I loved her she had a illness, I beleive that is why I promised to myself I would do the opposite of her when I had children. I grew up fast on my own @ 16 yrs old due to my grandmother had a stoke & was moved to a home, & living with my wonderful Uncle was out of the question in does days it was inproper..
I have no family, all passed away years ago, I had only my 2 beautilful girls who now are married with children,
I married, unfortunately marriage ended after 20 yrs my choice I had many hurdles but stayed strong, I always said when I was asked how did I cope my respond to that was, I was born in stress & learn how to cope & move on & not look back, When I divorced my priority 1st above all were my girls, 2nd my job to maintain my family, I did honor my promise to myself, I do not drink & never will & made sure to protect my children & love, protect them get involved with whatever they participated in be there to support them, without a doubt I do feel I gave them the best of myself, I do admit I was strict with rules after all I was raising girls but I did spoil them but I always made sure when I ground them I never gave in,reason it was important to me discipline