I have 1 child, an adult daughter, whom I used to have a good relationship with. After my husband/her father died she changed dramatically. She was extremely close to her dad and instead of his death bringing us closer together, it has made things worse. I spend a good deal of time staying at their house watching my grandkids. This trip has been the worse. I feel unloved, unwanted and uncared about. She says she appreciates all i do but actions speak louder than words. Every morning I wake up and say ... ok... it’s goong to be a good day, yet sometime that day she manages to make me so sad and answer me so nasty. I can’t talk to her. I’ve tried. I even wrote her a letter so she could maybe see my feelings, and she only picked up and commented in the one minor thing I said. The major things she never said a word about. Help. I don’t want to stop seeing my grandkids, but my daughter is breaking my heart. We can sit in the same room and not say a word. I feel like there’s a chasm between us yet she says it’s fine.