his girlfriend is too. She is in a mommy and me program and our grand baby will go with her next week. My son had baby at our home for several months. His girlfriend moved in. Their behavior was not good. My husband and I are retired with many health problems. We sold our home short sale over a yr ago and live in a very small 2 bd unit. We had our son, girlfriend and grandbaby here, but, landlord said we could not have five occupants. My son feels we let him down, as now he cant have his family together. We supported him for over ten yrs, with rehabs, oxford homes, bedding, money. Nothing worked. We cant do this again. His girlfriend is 21, they have a baby. We cannot raise her. They are herion addicts. I have helped him all through these past yrs, now, I cant, finanacially or mentally. I am now very depressed and not happy in my life. Don't know how to go forwaed, don't want to support him any longer. He asked if we could pay for oxford home near his girlfriend. We have given so much to him, and my daughter that does well, hasn't had our help. I don't have health insurance since husband retired, it is too expensive and I am not yet 65. I am so distraught.