Last year I managed to get, for free, a pre-lit Christmas tree. It wasn't totally free, I paid for it in labor at an estate sale. I couldn't move it into the storage room. Neck surgery if you don't remember. husband put it in the box OUTSIDE. It sat out in the back yard, uncovered, in the weather, ALL YEAR. He has still refused to haul it off. I was VERY hurt and upset. I told him this. This year I will NOT go out and find a tree. IF husband wants a tree (part of the reason I got the tree was because husband had wanted a pre-lit one for YEARS and this one was very very beautiful) then husband can go and findone. I simply will NOT do it. NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT. Maybe this is childish. But I still see the tree in the backyard EVERY time I go out there. And it still hurts. I am still unable to lift it into the car to haul it off. Should I just get over this, or continue telling husband that it is HIS job?