difficult child went to a private daycare (in house). The basement was a daycare designed just like large daycare centers. There were several people that worked there. One of the workers opened her own daycare so we brought him there. When the original daycare lady came to visit difficult child freaked. Made the lady lock the doors. Nobody knew why. When he was two he freaked out. Had to remove him. Had no idea what happened. When he was 5 - 9 years old and played sports, there were times he would totally freak out. Literally freeze up, not move, insist on leaving...really scary. He would NOT talk to me, husband, brother or anyone who tried speaking to him. Wasn't until middle school he actually told us. A father of a little girl told him he was going to cut him up in little peices..and showed him his hunting knife. (they were two). He says he was so scared he had nightmares about that man but was too afraid to talk. All those sports games he freaked out at...this man was the coach of the other team. difficult child has been talking about this man a lot lately. I looked at his baseball schedule..this man coaches the team they are playing on Monday. Do you think after all these years he is still afraid? I really think he is. he tells us he is not, but I think inside he is thinking and feeling the scary feelings he felt many years ago. I am really curious to see how this weeks game goes. He did not play or practice last week due to the headaches. I am hoping he is feeling better by Monday.