Thank you everyone as I have been on this site everyday and it helps me to deal with the sadness and anger of having a 22 year old that refuses to take responsibility for his choices. We have been on a crazy roller coaster ride with him for over 6 yrs. The system, what a joke, he has been arrested many times and they always let him off with a slap on wrist. He has a sentencing hearing in April for felony/misdemeanors for selling drugs, yeah, I was shocked yet again at how he hid this activity from me. I really do not think he will go to jail for this one either. His public defender thinks he's a nice kid and wants to help him. Ugh. I asked him to leave by this Sunday as I am done living in this cage where I have to always check and make sure he didn't steal my things or the rest of the families. I am so looking forward to peace in my house, and not being afraid to go on business trips without worrying what drama he has started in my house or what he is stealing from me. The last business trip, he called me a billion times and basically threatened that if I didn't give him money, he was going to go commit a crime. I know, I should have ignored it but I was away at a conference and I ended up calling the police and it got messy. The locks will be changed when he goes but the drama has started. We didn't give him enough time to move, poor him he will need to couch surf or sleep in his car....did I mention he doesn't keep a job for long and blows all money he has without saving anything? Just wanted to vent as I prepare for more drama as we go through this.