I need honest feedback. I am so undecided. On one hand my daughter already isnt speaking to me but this would seal the deal and I love her and I know she loves Jaden. He is well fed and she, not liking to work, is with him 24/7 doing very interesting things with him as they homeschool. They spank him but do t beat him. They are fairly loving. But Jaden. lives on an island. No real family who would watch to make sure he is healthy. Once a week homeschool group that are all against vaccines and medicine. No personal friends ever come over. Lee is antisocial and any friends Kay makes he chases away. No teachers as they homeschool. No outside classes. Jaden is home or at the store with his mom 90 percent of the time. They dont know their neighbors most who are friendly but hispanic and they cant communicate. These are my.concerns. i know its long. Please bear with me. They smoke weed in front of him and deliberately blow pot smoke in his face because they both strongly believe that pot makes children healthy and smart. Kay smoked pot while pregnant for this reason. If you look on the internet some people believe this! I don't think it is legal to do this even in pot friendly states. When I told my doctor, he told me I must call cps. Its not that easy for me. My grandson is almost four. He has only seen a medical doctor once in his life. He was maybe a year old. The pediatrician he went to told Kay that if they wont vaccinate Jaden he wont take him as a patient. After that they called all over looking for a doctor who was cool with this. I think they found one who practiced Eastern medicine,but she was booked very far out and I am not sure he ever went. He sees a homeopath now and that's it. They are not doctors and don't go to medical school. I am terrified that Jaden will get something like strep, which Kay got so often as a child. If her homeopath told her to go to a doctor for Jaden, she has indicated to me that she will not as she knows how to get the body to cure infections. Plus she feeds him such a healthy diet he will never get sick. When I said "Honey, everyone gets sick" she said "Oh God, Mom! You are a stupid sheeple. NOBODY ever has to ever get sick as long as they eat right and keep a healthy immune system with vitamins! You are brainwashed by Big Pharma!" She then told me she can prevent and cure cancer and people are stupid to do chemo. Kay has HPV and had pre cancer back in the day when she went to doctors. She had a procedure and was told to come back. She never went back. God knows if she is cancer free but I cant control her as worried as I am. This is about Jaden. I called cps since everyone I spoke with told me to and I was put on a cps call list. They were so busy they are going to call me back. I have had second thoughts. My husband and two kids told me gently to forget it and let it go and mind my own busineas. I don't know that cps will or can do anything based on what I say anyway. I am leaning toward just letting it go because nothing has happened yet and the pot smoke would be their word against mine. They are savvy and wont let cps in without a warrant. So they would have time to prepare. Anyone work for or have experience with cps? What would you do? I am so torn. I really just want them on the radar because there is nobody else keeping an eye on Jaden. Thoughts?