nvts
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we're splitting up. I told husband last night that he needs to find somewhere else to live. It's been unbearable for too long. I can't take the "I don't know if I love you's" the countless hours on the video games, the screaming at the kids and the total ambivilance to us all.
He yelled so loudly at difficult child 2 Wed. night that he peed in his pants. To make him feel better on Thursday, I let him come with difficult child 1 and I to go to difficult child 1's therapy appointment. and hang with me in the waiting room. They ambushed me in the therapists office and begged me to get a divorce (I'd already - unknown to them of course started looking into it after some garbage going on over the last two weeks).
We talked again today, and he cried. He knew that he'd withdrawn over the last 2 years, is unhappy at home, at work and even driving in the car. It's the most depressed I'd ever been. He says that he knows this is the right thing to do but doesn't know if he'll ever want to come back.
I am so sure that this is the right thing to do too, but why do I feel so bad? I've never felt this alone in my entire life...
Beth
He yelled so loudly at difficult child 2 Wed. night that he peed in his pants. To make him feel better on Thursday, I let him come with difficult child 1 and I to go to difficult child 1's therapy appointment. and hang with me in the waiting room. They ambushed me in the therapists office and begged me to get a divorce (I'd already - unknown to them of course started looking into it after some garbage going on over the last two weeks).
We talked again today, and he cried. He knew that he'd withdrawn over the last 2 years, is unhappy at home, at work and even driving in the car. It's the most depressed I'd ever been. He says that he knows this is the right thing to do but doesn't know if he'll ever want to come back.
I am so sure that this is the right thing to do too, but why do I feel so bad? I've never felt this alone in my entire life...
Beth