I had to take difficult child with me last night to get our team shod. Our farrier is Amish, but his son and difficult child are the same age and they play together. Its close to being a friendship as much as a business relationship. difficult child wanted a piece of gum. There was not enough for all of the kids, so I said no. He bothered me about the gum for 2 hours. Is there anything more you can do in that situation to get them "unstuck"? (and is that an ADHD thing?) He later got stuck on the farrier's tools. Thankfully Eli was about done because I was at my wit's end trying to keep his hands off the tools and horseshoes and nails...but same thing. No redirection was working.