timer lady
Queen of Hearts
kt was such a pill all weekend......one whine or complaint after another. Nothing was right in her world (her world went from a toddler to a 23 y/o & everything in between). It was ugly to watch.....uglier to deal with.
Finally around 4 yesterday afternoon she screamed out what I knew was going on all along......."I want daddy back". And she broke down & sobbed. It took several hours to calm her ~ she needed to cry however I didn't want her to escalate to hospitalization. And we were headed that direction.
I'm going to have to get kt to talk or just ask for a hug anything that helps her through these moments of anger & grief. It's overwhelming ~ I'm second guessing what I know is really going on because she denies it left & right.
kt doesn't want to make me sad by talking ~ I'd rather talk when she's sad & angry but calm than deal with yesterday afternoon.
I'm a broken record; it's okay to talk. I'm sad, angry, in disbelief, you name it, just like you are kt. Please please use your words.
I haven't found a bereavement group for adolescents that will fit into either of the tweedles schedules. Neither of them do well in outings after dark.
Ick.......I'm just hating this for my children.
Finally around 4 yesterday afternoon she screamed out what I knew was going on all along......."I want daddy back". And she broke down & sobbed. It took several hours to calm her ~ she needed to cry however I didn't want her to escalate to hospitalization. And we were headed that direction.
I'm going to have to get kt to talk or just ask for a hug anything that helps her through these moments of anger & grief. It's overwhelming ~ I'm second guessing what I know is really going on because she denies it left & right.
kt doesn't want to make me sad by talking ~ I'd rather talk when she's sad & angry but calm than deal with yesterday afternoon.
I'm a broken record; it's okay to talk. I'm sad, angry, in disbelief, you name it, just like you are kt. Please please use your words.
I haven't found a bereavement group for adolescents that will fit into either of the tweedles schedules. Neither of them do well in outings after dark.
Ick.......I'm just hating this for my children.