dashcat
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I m furious. I talked to DEX this morning. She quit weeks ago. She says she gave notice, but who knows.
DEX knew and told her that, if she didn't tell me, he would.
This is the part th at really gets to me. She told me she had to work the 4th of July. We were invited to my niece's, but she wouldn't have been able to get there. I told her "Hey, tha's ok. I'll make us a nice dinner." I make BBQ chicken (homemade sauce), grilled onions, potatoes and homemade garlic bread, fruit salad....she texts right about when she's supposed to be home: "I'm going to Kelly's (DEX's girlfriend) for dinner and on to the parade (DEX is in the parade). I decide not to text back about dinner - mainily because I knew she'd come homeall full of resentment and then go crying to them about how mean I am.
She comes home that night and I'm watching a movie in the basement. She won't come near me, goes to bed (itis 9:30) and sleeps until 12:30 the next day.
I confront her, first about the odd coming home behavior. I tell her it sure looks like she was high. OH< NO! Mom , I haven't smoked since blah blah. I am quitting. It's hard. I was depressed.
I then state very calmly that she'd hurt me by not coming home and sending that text at the last minute. "OH No MAMMA!! I forgot!!!! I'm so so so so sorry." I state, again, it hurt and I would appreciate if you'd ask about plans, esp. since it was a holiday.
She didn't even work that day! She'd quit. She spent the previous night at DEX's girlfriend's (She has a big fireworks party every year and I did expect this). Comes home and GETS WORK CLOTHES on the Fourth and disappears, sending that text and on an d on.
I am fit to be tied. How can I continue to be so stupid?
Dash
DEX knew and told her that, if she didn't tell me, he would.
This is the part th at really gets to me. She told me she had to work the 4th of July. We were invited to my niece's, but she wouldn't have been able to get there. I told her "Hey, tha's ok. I'll make us a nice dinner." I make BBQ chicken (homemade sauce), grilled onions, potatoes and homemade garlic bread, fruit salad....she texts right about when she's supposed to be home: "I'm going to Kelly's (DEX's girlfriend) for dinner and on to the parade (DEX is in the parade). I decide not to text back about dinner - mainily because I knew she'd come homeall full of resentment and then go crying to them about how mean I am.
She comes home that night and I'm watching a movie in the basement. She won't come near me, goes to bed (itis 9:30) and sleeps until 12:30 the next day.
I confront her, first about the odd coming home behavior. I tell her it sure looks like she was high. OH< NO! Mom , I haven't smoked since blah blah. I am quitting. It's hard. I was depressed.
I then state very calmly that she'd hurt me by not coming home and sending that text at the last minute. "OH No MAMMA!! I forgot!!!! I'm so so so so sorry." I state, again, it hurt and I would appreciate if you'd ask about plans, esp. since it was a holiday.
She didn't even work that day! She'd quit. She spent the previous night at DEX's girlfriend's (She has a big fireworks party every year and I did expect this). Comes home and GETS WORK CLOTHES on the Fourth and disappears, sending that text and on an d on.
I am fit to be tied. How can I continue to be so stupid?
Dash