KFld
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Why you ask???
Because he was supposed to be there today!!! Yikes!!
I was giving him a ride to the doctors office and I told him try getting ahold of his social worker again while I was with him so I could make sure he was asking the right questions and getting the correct information regarding not being the babies father. He had left her several messages last week and she never returned his calls. She actually answered, but said to him, you are supposed to be in court today. I read the paper myself and swore it said April 13, but it actually said April 3. Whoops!! He had to go straight to work after the doctors, so she didn't seem to concerned that he wasn't going to be there. She confirmed the dna shows the baby isn't his, and that the evidence will speak for itself and be entered as evidence in his defense and that he should call tomorrow and she will let him know what she hard. She said hopefully his name will just be expunged from the file and another court date will be set up for her, because guess what, she didn't show up either!!
He calls her and says, Sarah what day is court and she says, the 3rd, why what day is today? She then gets all nuts on the phone saying she can't get there and asking him why he's doing this to her????? He told her it's not his problem, he's the the father and has nothing to do with this anymore and that she's the only one who's going to get in trouble for not showing up, she knew the date and must not have any intention of showing up. She then calls him back and says she spoke to her social worker who said if they don't show up there benefits could be cut off. He called his social worker back and she said they can't do anything to him, he's not the father, but they can cut off hers.
I read the papers he was served and it sounds like he can't get in any trouble for not appearing. They state that he is required to appear to enter anything in his own defense and if he fails to appear a judgement will be entered for him. To me this means the DNA will be entered and it should be over. HOPEFULLY!!
Because he was supposed to be there today!!! Yikes!!
I was giving him a ride to the doctors office and I told him try getting ahold of his social worker again while I was with him so I could make sure he was asking the right questions and getting the correct information regarding not being the babies father. He had left her several messages last week and she never returned his calls. She actually answered, but said to him, you are supposed to be in court today. I read the paper myself and swore it said April 13, but it actually said April 3. Whoops!! He had to go straight to work after the doctors, so she didn't seem to concerned that he wasn't going to be there. She confirmed the dna shows the baby isn't his, and that the evidence will speak for itself and be entered as evidence in his defense and that he should call tomorrow and she will let him know what she hard. She said hopefully his name will just be expunged from the file and another court date will be set up for her, because guess what, she didn't show up either!!
He calls her and says, Sarah what day is court and she says, the 3rd, why what day is today? She then gets all nuts on the phone saying she can't get there and asking him why he's doing this to her????? He told her it's not his problem, he's the the father and has nothing to do with this anymore and that she's the only one who's going to get in trouble for not showing up, she knew the date and must not have any intention of showing up. She then calls him back and says she spoke to her social worker who said if they don't show up there benefits could be cut off. He called his social worker back and she said they can't do anything to him, he's not the father, but they can cut off hers.
I read the papers he was served and it sounds like he can't get in any trouble for not appearing. They state that he is required to appear to enter anything in his own defense and if he fails to appear a judgement will be entered for him. To me this means the DNA will be entered and it should be over. HOPEFULLY!!