Sharon,
I think the situation was handled extremely well at the meeting. The positive in all of this is that there is nothing like real life experiences and the resulting consequences to teach our kids what "real life" is like. Hopefully, this experience will help your easy child mature.
And, what a gift - being told how "huggable" you are!!! This is absolutely priceless!!! Definitely a moment to cherish...
I'll be sending positive thoughts your way that your easy child does well this week.
Hugs, SFR