difficult child called sat. to say he was coming home. difficult child calls a little later and him and girlfriend have hit a deer. difficult child comes in at about 10, dumps his dirty clothes out of his bag onto bed, then proceeds to fill his bag with clean clothes. I said to him "I thought you said you were staying?" he said" I have got to go fix barbie's car now I can't stay" After a little back and forth, all I could think of was the quote from Ant's mom and I told him he was just using me as a storage unit for his clothes. He looked SHOCKED. He didn't say a word, then I asked him who was going to wash the dirty clothes on his bed? He put them in the hamper and said he would get them later. Long storyshort~ I went outside and looked @car, yes they did hit a deer I had a pretty long conversation with Barbie, I can't figure out if she's a difficult child, or fixer, or a little of both. She is 22, lives w\mom and now that is where my difficult child has been staying we say our goodbyes and they leave. The next morning difficult child and barbie show up right after breakfast. difficult child is calm (I have learned this is not always good with a cocaine user) Washed, dried, putup his clothes. He made ham\cheese bisquits for them, and even offered to iron easy child's shirt.He told me he loved me before he left, he gave me barbie's home and cell #'s. Told me he was starting a job tuesday, he loves me and will call soon. He called tonight, said I love you and I will tell about the job tomorrow night. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN????? Is he feeling remorse for using when he got out of rehab? Was he embarrassed and is now holding his head up because he found a job? Has barbie changed him??? I am dumbfounded by his actions this weekend~ I haven't seen him on a weekend in 4 yrs, unless he was locked up and I was visiting.