PatriotsGirl
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So he has been with mommy a little over a week now. I do miss him - sometimes so much it makes my heart hurt. BUT, is it wrong to say that I am enjoying not having to raise a toddler, too? We have our house back - and it stays clean - lol. I am sleeping with my husband in our bed and we feel like a couple again. This Friday we are playing hooky from work and going to a town called Helen to have some fun tubing down the river, going to a water park and then to our favorite steak restaurant for dinner. I am sooo excited!
I get pictures of Connor from the house mom and he looks happy. One of the pictures was of him and momma playing. It just feels so right. Everything feels at it should be and I want it to stay that way. I know they said this was a two week "trial" period but I really feel he should stay with momma. I'm not sure how to approach it if they expect me to bring him back here this weekend. I am not sure if they do, but if so, why?? I don't see what the point of it would be if these past two weeks have gone just fine.
We were talking this weekend and hubby said to tell them we lost his daycare spot. But I don't have what it takes in me to lie about anything. I literally find it impossible. I do feel strongly that he needs to stay with momma and not come back here, though. When I was leaving that Saturday that I brought him there, he did not want to let me go. He kept telling momma bye bye and had a death grip on me. I felt awful but I knew he had to be with momma to build that bond with her again. We don't want to confuse him by bringing him back here. I saw the pain in her eyes. She has already missed so much with him and I know how deeply she loves her little boy.
Would it be wrong of me to refuse to bring him back with us if that is what they expect? I would feel terrible but at the same time, staying with her is the right thing for both of them...
I get pictures of Connor from the house mom and he looks happy. One of the pictures was of him and momma playing. It just feels so right. Everything feels at it should be and I want it to stay that way. I know they said this was a two week "trial" period but I really feel he should stay with momma. I'm not sure how to approach it if they expect me to bring him back here this weekend. I am not sure if they do, but if so, why?? I don't see what the point of it would be if these past two weeks have gone just fine.
We were talking this weekend and hubby said to tell them we lost his daycare spot. But I don't have what it takes in me to lie about anything. I literally find it impossible. I do feel strongly that he needs to stay with momma and not come back here, though. When I was leaving that Saturday that I brought him there, he did not want to let me go. He kept telling momma bye bye and had a death grip on me. I felt awful but I knew he had to be with momma to build that bond with her again. We don't want to confuse him by bringing him back here. I saw the pain in her eyes. She has already missed so much with him and I know how deeply she loves her little boy.
Would it be wrong of me to refuse to bring him back with us if that is what they expect? I would feel terrible but at the same time, staying with her is the right thing for both of them...