As we all are dear one, and as we should always be. I pray and hope for a lifting for you, myself, and everyone who visits here. We all deserve peace and harmony with the life within us and that surrounds us. It is our job to work to continually strive to get there and to understand it's also like an ocean, a tide that wanes and ebbs. Pema Chodron: We think that the point is to pass the test or overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again... The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy. Make no mistake this is not about staying on the merry go round with anyone would like to "make" us do what they feel is in their best interests. It's about us as we move forward making changes in our lives, accepting things as they are and understanding the end goal is not to do it all perfectly, there is no such thing as perfect in the human condition.