OK so I yanked her from the elitist "10" Blue Ribbon school. Yesterday was her first day at the "down the street 8 school". When I picked her up both yesterday and today she told me what awesome days she had. I have never felt so happy, listening to her describe the curriculum as easy, too easy, etc. I knew the "10" school was over the top as far as difficulty, so I was so thrilled and my fingers have been crossed so hard they are probably going to snap off. Then today she said the classs watched a movie while she got "tested for math". I just felt completely sick and anxious and worried, I know I am always hoping she is "normal" but I have seen so many weird things from her my heart is weary. I WANT HER TO BE OK! I don't want her to struggle through school and I am so upset I can't even explain it any more. My heart is on the ground and everything else. I want my daughter to be ok, I want the last school to have been the problem, I don't want HER to be struggling because of nervous system disorders or whatever. And now I am just sick worrying about these tests. daughter said most of it was way too hard for 1st grade, Im just wondering what that means. Dont they even have to warn you when they will be doing an evaluation of some sort?