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I wish you all the best and pray things look up for all of you. Glad in some cases here it has. You all have been wonderful and I cant thank you all enough, but it seems I have wasted all your alls time. Im not looking for pitty, just telling ya all whats up.
Update... my son started biting himself again.. sometimes he goes to bed and gets up but most of the time he doesn't.. it can take over two hours to get up and going. He can take up to three hours do do a few words and put it in alphabet order.. his grades are 50's in some cases, some-days are good at school, some-days are bad with mainly talking..not finishing work...still doesnt want to pick up anything after himself..his way or highway. This morning is yet another morning he refused to get up so this now makes 9 days of missing school in total.. with only 4 with him being really sick. I have taken away all electroncis, outside, going anywhere except he can go to school and dr.s if needed. No play dates.. no sports nothing and he still doesnt want to listen. I am still having issues with my daughter but not like him. So, I boiled it down to what the dr said. Its ALL MY FAULT. I mean, their half brothers who live with their mom are nothing like my two, escp my son. So, I was taking some to half of the blame before, but now, I see its me. I have same rules as her, but mine it doesnt work.. I copied everything of her parenting skills, nope. I changed them a lil, added the kids in on punishments and rewards what they thought etc etc. Nothing. I wanted to help u all so badly and give some great advice, but I have never been able too because I lack knowledge.
My plan is to provide for them and love them, meanwhile ending up in jail because here we land a fine and jail time for kids refusal for school. At this rate their father will say he can handle them better and probably will win custody. When they have kids hopefully they will come to me and tell me what else I could of done different and hopefully they will figure out how much I love them.
Anyways, lots o hugs to all
Update... my son started biting himself again.. sometimes he goes to bed and gets up but most of the time he doesn't.. it can take over two hours to get up and going. He can take up to three hours do do a few words and put it in alphabet order.. his grades are 50's in some cases, some-days are good at school, some-days are bad with mainly talking..not finishing work...still doesnt want to pick up anything after himself..his way or highway. This morning is yet another morning he refused to get up so this now makes 9 days of missing school in total.. with only 4 with him being really sick. I have taken away all electroncis, outside, going anywhere except he can go to school and dr.s if needed. No play dates.. no sports nothing and he still doesnt want to listen. I am still having issues with my daughter but not like him. So, I boiled it down to what the dr said. Its ALL MY FAULT. I mean, their half brothers who live with their mom are nothing like my two, escp my son. So, I was taking some to half of the blame before, but now, I see its me. I have same rules as her, but mine it doesnt work.. I copied everything of her parenting skills, nope. I changed them a lil, added the kids in on punishments and rewards what they thought etc etc. Nothing. I wanted to help u all so badly and give some great advice, but I have never been able too because I lack knowledge.
My plan is to provide for them and love them, meanwhile ending up in jail because here we land a fine and jail time for kids refusal for school. At this rate their father will say he can handle them better and probably will win custody. When they have kids hopefully they will come to me and tell me what else I could of done different and hopefully they will figure out how much I love them.
Anyways, lots o hugs to all