Great resource: YouTube movie

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by WiseChoices, Nov 15, 2019.

  1. WiseChoices

    WiseChoices Active Member

    I have been watching this over and over and over and took notes today . This is so helpful and I would like to share it with all of you. It really opened my eyes and helps me to start living in the solution:

    Jerry Wise family systems counseling
    "Letting everyone around you grow up"

    Letting Everybody Around You Grow Up
     
  2. BusynMember

    BusynMember Active Member

    The very title of this is where I think many of us made wrong steps. We wanted everything for our kids and for us to make it easier for them than we had it. Also parents back in the day did not worry as much about our self esteem or feelings so many of us (me) went overboard to make sure our kids KNEW we loved them by our deed and word. Or so we thought (me).

    It didn't turn out so well for many kids who grew up entitled and associating money/gifts with love. Love and gifts are one and the same to many of these kids.

    God bless you all today.
     
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  3. Beta

    Beta Active Member

    Completely agree, as I wrote earlier today on the thread about "Dreading the holidays.."
     
  4. Beta

    Beta Active Member

    Just watched this. You're right--this is excellent. I plan on watching more of his videos. Thank you for the tip!
     
  5. Blindsided

    Blindsided Face the Sun

    Powerful reminder. I should watch this everday!!!

    thank you, Wise for sharing.