I've been a member here for a long time - since 2001. What fun years these have been. My son is now 26. He moved it out for good about 5 years ago. In that period of time, we have had contact with him three times - we do not text, don't know a phone number, where he is living, etc...absolutely nothing. He has a son who is now 4. We have a lot of contact with him and his Mom lets us see him whenever we want. We do help out a lot financially and love this little guy so much. So....my question....anyone been out of contact with their difficult child and then somehow re=established contact and was it positive or negative? Thanks.