Its the holidays and I just kicked my son (18) out. I have always thought I was immune to such actions, I gave every bit of my heart and soul to my son. A brief synopsis goes like this ; I had made sure my son was involved in sports, social activities, and had love around every corner. Since he was 13 he started to do negative things like get in trouble at school, hanging with questionable kids. Fastforward to today, I have helped in court. Over tickets, pot charges. I always gave him the benefit of the doubt but he continuously Disrespects the house, the rules, and won't get a job or obey curfew. Last weekend he was gone on his normal three day weekend with his friends doing who knows what and let a girlfriend drive his car into a convienance store, well no injuries but now we will have alot of insurance issues and he did not even bother telling us!!! We were contacted by the insurance company, he acts as if its no big deal!! So we had words tonight about his lack of effort for his job search, one thing led to another and I told him he cannot disrespect the house or me and he must leave....