I haven't been here in a while. My son is still in a homeless shelter. He has been arrested before Christmas and spent a week in jail. I won't go into the charges but I pray he is innocent of this! Of course nothing is his fault, it never is. He launched a barrage of crazy at me a couple of days before Christmas, bringing up the past and again everything us my fault. He wants to build a better relationship. Why don't I call? I have to keep my distance because I do not trust him. He s finally working and saving money for a truck, not an apartment, a truck. He says he is clean but I really don't trust that. I am better. I graduated in December with my Masters. I have a new apartment. Thanks to everyone for your advice and strength. This site was a God send! Hugs!