I don't even know where to begin... difficult child refused to go to church with- us (husband, me and son) Said she was spending it with her boyfriend. She shows up at the very end of the hour dressed in cut off shorts and a cartoon t shirt. It was during the candlelight part....at least she was polite, etc. She comes home....part of the plan was after church she was going to spend the night and stay tomorrow ...leave after boyfriend and come for dinner. Seems she had a little fight with her boyfriend...walked out and wandered into our church. After she is at our home for a little while...she gets into a fight with- US! I sent her packing with her presents. Told her NOT to call us TOMORROW! And that we'll talk the day AFTER CHRISTMAS! Told husband...would like a peaceful day. The SAD PART...this is the last year our son will be home. He is moving next year. He had an opportunity to go out of town, but chose to stay home to be with family; including his sister. This is the way she treats him and us. Christmas has NOT EVEN STARTED AND I"m SHAKING, worried, conflicted and fighting depression.