rejectedmom
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difficult child#2 called last night he is out on parole & in a shelter in the worst part of the nearby city. He has nothing but the clothes he was released with. He wanted back what he sent us when he entered the prison (one outfit) and asked for nothing else. His exgirlfriend returned nothing of his after he went to jail and they have since broke up. She probably sold everything she could and tossed the rest. It fits her M.O. I admit I am tempted to buy him a few things. I probably would except that we had told him when he took everything out of our attic that we would not replace it. We have outfitted him so many times only to have him loose it all over and over again.
I am hoping he makes it this time. Hoping this is his time to shine. I am staying out of all of it though. Maybe if he does it all on his own it will mean more. It is so hard not helping them navagate the system when you know they have such limited executive fuctioning abilities. But he is almost an hour away so I doubt my efforts would be of much use anyway. I'm trying to hold positive thoughts for him. I do not want to put any negativity out into the universe to find him. I am working on being happy and hopeful for him. -RM
I am hoping he makes it this time. Hoping this is his time to shine. I am staying out of all of it though. Maybe if he does it all on his own it will mean more. It is so hard not helping them navagate the system when you know they have such limited executive fuctioning abilities. But he is almost an hour away so I doubt my efforts would be of much use anyway. I'm trying to hold positive thoughts for him. I do not want to put any negativity out into the universe to find him. I am working on being happy and hopeful for him. -RM