toughlovin
Well-Known Member
So we are away visiting my inlaws. I didnt have my phone with me so my son called my husband asking for something. We hadnt discussed it with my son but my husband and I had agreed to hold back some after his behavior after the vape/bake shop incident.
So my husband told him no... my son got mad.
I was not on the phone.
My immediate reaction was to respond ro him with a text telling him we would talk about it tomorrow on a call with the program. Basically to jump in and engage... which of course would give him the chance to tell me no I dont want to engage with you.
All of a sudden it was like what am I doing? I need to really not engage here. My husband said no (good) and I need to leave it alone and keep backing off. (Good for me) So I did not text or do anything!
TL
So my husband told him no... my son got mad.
I was not on the phone.
My immediate reaction was to respond ro him with a text telling him we would talk about it tomorrow on a call with the program. Basically to jump in and engage... which of course would give him the chance to tell me no I dont want to engage with you.
All of a sudden it was like what am I doing? I need to really not engage here. My husband said no (good) and I need to leave it alone and keep backing off. (Good for me) So I did not text or do anything!
TL