I need help, ideas, and advice, on staying calm in the middle of my son's meltdowns, rudeness, manipulations, and his attempts at blatantly pushing my buttons. I used to be the most calm mom, ever - and now I have lost whatever it was I used to have, and with just one button pushing statement he can set me off like a fire cracker. It is not good for my health, or helping him for me to be mad all of the time, and it has become a huge dysfunctional cycle. Please help! I need all the tips, input, and guidance you can think of!!!