After looking at my calendar for the week, I immediately starting making calls & rescheduling. I kept 2 appointments of more immediate concern & my piano lessons; I am shutting out/down the rest of the week. I needed a more manageable week; a week that I'm not constantly on the run for one tweedle or the other. It felt good to tell attachment therapist that I was tired of him, the twins, husband, the dog, the cat, the weather, laundry, etc, etc, etc. therapist's response: "So you want a life, huh? Need some Linda time, do you?" Pretty much I do. Planning on a long hot bath this afternoon, a nap & already have a pot of soup simmering. What a luxury. I think everyone here needs to do the same at least one week a month or we're all going to crash & burn.