I had never found that stupid list. Or husband hadn't gotten pulled over. Or wee hadn't been singing loudly to annoy him. So I could go on being blindly content that at least he washed a dish out here and there, and at least he did make easy child do something about her clothes, even if I did have to rag him 4 times... The dog got out of its kennel at 3am, he brought it in the house, frustrated with it, and smacked it. And I guess he spanked her tonight for lying again, and now I'm scared to death that cps will be calling. Yeah...anxiety hoovers.