I found your site and boards the other day in desperation. I had a very bad evening with my daughter and just wanted to send her away somewhere. I began searching on the web the next day for residential treatment centers and found this website. My husband and I have 3 children, two twin boys and a girl. Our oldest is the girl and was diagnosed at age 7 with ADHD, ODD, Anxiety Disorder and a few different phobias. Through trial and error we have found a medication that works toward treating the ADHD. The evenings and mornings though at home still are unmanagealbe and chaotic and my daughter is now 11. After 4 years of this, we are completely exhausted and have seen the toll that it has taken on my husband and I as well as our two sons. I know that many of you warrior parents have been through this all before, and so I guess right now I just needed some support and a group of people that understand what life is like with a child like this. It breaks my heart to even consider sending my daughter somewhere other than her home, but at what point does the rest of the family's needs get priority?