Over the years, reading many difficult child stories, ones that never cease to amaze me are the ones that have difficult child's who actually faked having jobs... for actually long periods of time too. They would leave in the morning, the same time and come home the same time everyday pretending to go to work. Of course there were a lot of red flags, but you really wouldn't know it unless you actually caught them apparently. I've done some crazy things in my past, but I couldn't even fathom actually faking have a job and faking one for as long as YEARS. I mean, who does that? Who does that?? Who goes through all that trouble? That is one , big, huge, MASSIVE, lie to create in my humble opinion. No one could ever tell me any different.