difficult child just left and we had a wonderful visit. He has matured so much! The boys had fun with him, I was about to cry. He still works in a casino, he does room service and banquet serving. He makes very good money, he has perscription and medical benefits. And he is saving( yes!!) for a new car. His truck(junk) is broken again- he wants new,not used. He has 5 grand saved for it so far. He is still with his girlfriend from Sweden. She will be moving here in July permanantly. I think the visa only let her stay temporarily before. Honestly, I thought they broke up when difficult child went to visit her there last year and wouldn't work there either. He is so different. He brought me a box of candy! He said they didn't have flowers at the store. I am happy things are going so well for him.-Alyssa.