OK. I don't have any way to process this info. husband and I talked last week. I am dealing with major PTSD over the stuff that happened before I made difficult child leave.
husband never really supported me - he stood there with the judge, he didn't contradict me, but he was just there, not actively supporting anything with difficult child, not one way or any other.
I explained what had gone on the day I called the Sheriff and refused to let difficult child stay. husband had come home AFTER the Sheriff got there. I told the Sheriff the whole story - it is in the police report. husband saw the police report.
husband says he thought difficult child just pushed me, maybe headbutted me??????????
WTH planet is he living on?? Can I smoke some of that??????? (husband has NEVER abused substances of any kind, just for info.)
The child wrestled me to the floor, kicked, punched and bit. All over asking if he had homework.
It was the last straw. Jess, thank you and I were all too scared.
Things are going well now, so my mind wants to start processing this. I just can't believe my husband. I don't even know how to talk to him.
How do I cope with this on top of everything else? (husband says that I forced our son to leave, and maybe he should have gotten a place with difficult child, not divorce, just live in different houses??????) I have no reason why this even came up. difficult child is doing wonderfully with my parents - really thriving and growing. Has PLANS for his life - real, achievable plans!
Thanks for any/all input on this.
Confused,
Susie
husband never really supported me - he stood there with the judge, he didn't contradict me, but he was just there, not actively supporting anything with difficult child, not one way or any other.
I explained what had gone on the day I called the Sheriff and refused to let difficult child stay. husband had come home AFTER the Sheriff got there. I told the Sheriff the whole story - it is in the police report. husband saw the police report.
husband says he thought difficult child just pushed me, maybe headbutted me??????????
WTH planet is he living on?? Can I smoke some of that??????? (husband has NEVER abused substances of any kind, just for info.)
The child wrestled me to the floor, kicked, punched and bit. All over asking if he had homework.
It was the last straw. Jess, thank you and I were all too scared.
Things are going well now, so my mind wants to start processing this. I just can't believe my husband. I don't even know how to talk to him.
How do I cope with this on top of everything else? (husband says that I forced our son to leave, and maybe he should have gotten a place with difficult child, not divorce, just live in different houses??????) I have no reason why this even came up. difficult child is doing wonderfully with my parents - really thriving and growing. Has PLANS for his life - real, achievable plans!
Thanks for any/all input on this.
Confused,
Susie