JJJ,
So very much has happened. I know many of us suggest documenting things. IOt has to be hard to keep track of it all.
Maybe if you take the posts here with what has happened and save them into emails or a file (I pull things into email and then set filters to pull them into a separate file with-o having Occupational Therapist (OT) read them) would make the documentation easier?
I wanted to send a practical suggestion, I know that documentation will be critical.
Also, have you considered giving the kids personal alarms for when they are aroung Kanga? Jess wore one while we were trying to get difficult child into the psychiatric hospital. He kept trying to kill her in the middle of the night. So with an alarm she could call us very easily if there was a problem. She was good about not abusing it, though she tried it one or two times because she didn't believe we would really come.
I am sending hugs and prayers,
Susie