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toughlovin
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So my difficult child called tonight... his plan was to go back down south tomorrow...problem was the plan to pay for the ticket fell through so he had no way to buy the ticket. I mentioned the miles..... and then my husband said he felt we should help him get the ticket, because really we want him to go back. I did tell difficult child he better check and see if the sober house will take him back. They will, with some tightening up of rules for him. I talked to them also to make sure. We are paid up until Dec 1st so they will take him until then and see how he does. So we did get him a ticket for tomorrow morning... and the ticket was cheap which is nice.
Then my difficult child called and his girlfriend and her friend have no gas... wanted $20 for gas money to get him to the airport. We siad we would not do that.... but did say i was willing to drive him to the airport. Now this is very inconvient for me but will give me a chance to see him. And at least we are sticking to our no cash policy!!! And at least I will know he gets to the airport... won't know for sure he gets on the plane but I will know he got to the airport.
So we shall see what happens next. I do feel better about this because i feel going back there and to the sober house is his best chance right now for recovery. Staying up here is a doomed proposition in my mind.
TL
Then my difficult child called and his girlfriend and her friend have no gas... wanted $20 for gas money to get him to the airport. We siad we would not do that.... but did say i was willing to drive him to the airport. Now this is very inconvient for me but will give me a chance to see him. And at least we are sticking to our no cash policy!!! And at least I will know he gets to the airport... won't know for sure he gets on the plane but I will know he got to the airport.
So we shall see what happens next. I do feel better about this because i feel going back there and to the sober house is his best chance right now for recovery. Staying up here is a doomed proposition in my mind.
TL