Hi, I do not post much but read alot and have learned so much here. The problem is taking what I have learned and using it! I have a 23 year old son who lives in my home and he is a herion addict. He is verbually abusive to me and always borrowing money with no intention of paying it back. Of course each time he promises it is the last time. Why can I not find the courage to say no and stick to it even if it means having to call the police? He has destroyed property in the past when I say no. I wish I had even a small amount of the courage I see on this board. God bless you all.