Son has Cluster B and bipolar. Have been trying to help after legal problems, probation, divorce, new girlfriend with mental issues. Borderline (BPD). Currently I have had Supervision with custody of son for 2 years while trying to help with custody and to get sup dropped. Son had violent fight with girlfriend, lost his job, moved back in our house for 3 months and turned into carefree teen. He is 30. He dramatized we threw him out into the streets with no money, job or place to stay. Moved back in with girlfriend and now nasty with me and putting the blame on me. Wants supervision dropped and he'll see his son thru the courts. He won't be able to pay. He threatens I won't be able to see my grandson. So not true. Does not appreciate everything I have sacrificed for him to be able to see his son. Spent money on lawyers ECT and nothing is resolved. Dropping supervision Tom and just need some space from son. He is either going to get himself together or sink. I can no longer help him. I just started to take an antidepressant and am 62 years old and retiring. I feel I' trying to fix and live his life and destroying mine and my husband's. Praying and looking for strength. Like the son I knew is gone.