Hi again. I don't think it will take long either. We have learned that he has no money for alcohol right now which is why he is sober. He'll find a way even if he has to sell stuff. He won't last long I don't think.
We recieved a court date. There is no local board for this, it is from another city and they travel a circuit. Due to summer (GRRRR) the circuit gets time off, so we were to only get a date in late August!!!! But they realized the level of risk (THANK GOODNESS!) and the next date they are here in town for hearings is July 30. So we got added to that date although they were full and not supposed to add new cases. Small miracles! It still feels crazy to wait till then, but the alternative was worse. So we'll take what we can get.
Meanwhile, he emailed the super today after getting the papers for the hearing date. He says it was null and void since she spelled his name in one spot initially with a wrong vowel on the initial set of papers. Dumb butt that he is. Anyhow, he says he isn't evicted due to that. Meanwhile it was legally amended (the spelling error) at the board where we filed, and there is no ground for that to affect the legality. The guy now must think he's a lawyer too
. She shot him off a brief email stating the law, the amendment to the documents, and that the hearing stands and that the landlord will not revoke it and he must leave his apartment. That was that.
So he's still thinking all unrealistic and stupid. He just doesn't get it. He told someone that he will be here long after I am gone. His tone alerted them so they asked, well how is SHE (meaning me of course) supposed to be going when she did nothing??? He smirked and said nothing really except a quizical statement about how he will be seeing to it. One more nail in the proverbial coffin. Sounds very threatening and menacing from my position here.
So we maintain our status of rotting in this house and being unable to spend time in our yard or bbq or just enjoy my swing etc. He has tried to allege things to a agency that provides support to me for my MS and related expenses, in attempt to have my services through the agency interrupted. It's pretty resolved although I have to go sign some stuff tomorrow. This guy is STILL trying to interfere in my world. And the idiot gave his name when he called to try to make me look like I was abusing the service!!! Shows me his fixation hasn't gone away and therefore, we have become MORE vigilant.
Otherwise, he's been seen biking away and to his door, but he's approached nobody on the street. He just comes and goes and when he's around he is just hiding out in his apartment. That is just as well! We are all on alert on the road to follow police orders if he's out of it in the street drinking or the slightest reason.
Oh, also the copies of trespassing notices regarding myself, S/O and the kids, as well as the woman whose apartment he walked into the afternoon before he attacked my S/0?? The guy is so off. The documents were served to him via registered mail. He recieved a final notice from the post office that he has not picked them up and in 3 days they will return to sender. So he knows there is something for him to sign for but he doesn't know what it is, and he won't go get it. Kind of glad actually. If he says boo to me or the kids or S/O, straight to jail. If he keeps offending maybe the court would actually refuse bail. Mind you, I'm not exactly accesible since I'm hiding indoors. But ya never know.
My easy child is home this Sunday from Nova Scotia where she's been on holidays with her father. No way is this guy taking away her time with me for the whole freaking summer school holiday! So I've decided to NOT say hes a danger or any details, just that as she knwos gramma (my mom) has an illness and sometimes we stay away from her, I'll explain so does neighbour. Therefore we're going to hang out inside the house, not playing outside. And make sure she isnt' afraid but also doesn't get upset at not playing outside. The superintendent babysits her granddaughter daily, so we've decided to take both girls each day somewhere. To her daughters house to play in their pool, to the lake,, to a movie, to the library. Just a little break outdoors, out of the house, for both kids every day. My super can't bring her granddaughter outside to play now either. So I'm going to find a way to make it work, mind you if he starts up to any degree on the road at all, I'll send her to her dad's and tell her I'm not feeling well or something.
So wish us luck! We have the forms to hospitalize him all ready to go if the right chance comes up, where they will SEE how sick he is.
Melissa