Well here it is 3 in the morning and I'm surfing online to get help/advise on how to deal with my pothead son! 3 months ago he was arrested for possession and I had to pay $250 in bail, the judge has ordered him to take a drug and alcohol class which will be another $120 and then back to court to see what if any fines he will have. He has been told over and over not to bring that **** into the house(we live with my sister) and he keeps doing it and I am to the point of snapping, it's really a good thing I DO NOT own a gun, I don't know what to do with him!!! He was accepted into a good private college and has decided he wants to go to our local college which I don't consider a good enough school, he has no job and with his daily habit he wont find one! Should I turn him in for smoking or would asking for state funded rehab be a better option? I am a single parent who is hearing impaired and financially strapped to the point of bankruptcy.....advice!!