It was hard but after the arguing and drama, he walked out with a backpack. 36, pot smoking does not work, was talking some money from my checking account. I have had times today where I would just cry but have realized I can only do so much. He is an adult and has made bad choices in his life, I have offered to pay for private psychiatrist and he will not go or take any medication. Wants me to move him out and help him to pay for the place when he does not even work. My Husband has been great but we are tired of all of this. He called me names and told me he hates me etc, it is horrible and hard to believe these are our children we love and raised. Hopefully he will learn something from this and all that we do for him. I appreciate your support, and comments.