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Thanks guys. As usual, my sanity is here. I posted in my other thread and forgot to tell you here, Q started making the noises and laughing when he got his medications. he said again, is that really sex noises? I said no it just sounds dumb to me. Not angry or anything, just casual talk. He said, ok i asked where he was when leo told him (figured that would give me a big clue if there was a chance anything more had happened) he said, i'm not going to tell you because you will call the police. I assured him i wouldn't call the police (true) and he said he whispered into his ear so they talked by whispering. Yeah, I dont think it went beyond that and he also said he left a long time ago which means to me most of the time Q was there, Leo wasn't. But, clearly even after Leo was gone, Q was stuck on it and all the complaints of these weird phrases that he kept getting in trouble for never got investigated. I missed it totally too. As I said, just like with this case, it is really easy for me to eventually track down each and every phrase, song, noise etc. he perseverates on. Some of them sound so much like he is a bully, or a sexual preditor just because of the words. We have to find a way to help him gain more control. I fear it is just what we are doing, try to reduce anxiety so he can have more neurological control, use medications to help, distract and divert when he is stuck in these patterns. It is hard to do the last especially when the behaviors taht tend to go alone with it can be aggressive or totally inappropriate. Good thing he is cute and I love him.