Lothlorien
Active Member
Very well said Marg.
I don't think you are in danger of being physically abuse, but then again, he does have a history of drinking. That can always go sour if an argument ensues and he's drunk enough.
Marg is right about planning your own exit. Get things together. Do it quietly. Then, when you are ready, the element of surprise will smack him in the face like a bee sting. If he leaves fine, but he may not. You have to just smile at him and pretend that's okay. Then go about your business.
Don't let him bait you anymore with nonsense about something that happened 24 years ago. Despite your husbands age and knowledge, he sounds like he needs a lot of growing up to do.
I don't think you are in danger of being physically abuse, but then again, he does have a history of drinking. That can always go sour if an argument ensues and he's drunk enough.
Marg is right about planning your own exit. Get things together. Do it quietly. Then, when you are ready, the element of surprise will smack him in the face like a bee sting. If he leaves fine, but he may not. You have to just smile at him and pretend that's okay. Then go about your business.
Don't let him bait you anymore with nonsense about something that happened 24 years ago. Despite your husbands age and knowledge, he sounds like he needs a lot of growing up to do.