I had some kind of wicked illness for two weeks, couldn't talk and needed some 7 up or something for my throat, pull up to the nearest fast food joint, Arby's and guess what? My oldest daughter's father whom we haven't seen or heard from in 10 plus years hands it to me right out the drive thru window. My daughter met him about 10 years ago for the first time, and he took off without a goodbye or anything, I could never find him working at any one place to get a dime in child support ever. Well he asks me for her number and I don't give it to him, I would have to check with her first. Anyway, I took his and left it up to my daughter to call him or not to call him. Of course she did because she is very forgiving. Well he starts calling me, I shut him down completely. easy child is on her way home from college tonight for one night, before she catches a plane to Atlanta for a week. She is expecting to be able to see us both in the small time frame she has. She asks if we can all go to dinner together. I couldn't give that to her as a child and feel I could possibly sit thru a short meal if that's what she really wants or needs. Well this fool calls me today and says by the way I am homeless and living at this shelter and can't be out past 5 pm, could you bring her by the shelter so I can get a picture of her on my cell phone. He says if I had more money I could get a hotel room for the night and we could all visit. He says I only have 13.00. Was this fool really trying to ask me for money in an indirect way when he has never helped me or my daughter ever. I am livid. Now what do I tell easy child when she gets here in a few hours. One more thing, her dad is 52 years old and still making babies, he has a 24, 19, 11, 11 not twins, different mothers, 5 yr old and 2 yr. old and he says to me, she is the only thing that i did right in my life. Um, what, the only thing you did right was stay out of her life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Any suggestions on what to tell my 19 year old who will be here shortly that we have to go to the homeless shelter to visit your father. I just don't know what to do.