I am sending you a lot of hugs. This is such a tough time. Remember that this time will always be in your memories, so do whatever feels right for you. You need to respect your parents to some extent, but if you really need to be there, then GO. Marg and Janet have excellent advice. If being there is too much you can always go to a hotel or go home. But if you don't go you will always wonder if you should have or if something could have been different that you wanted to be different.
I hope that whatever works out is what is best. If you cannot go, could you get your mother to record your father for you and for Matt? Get him to tell stories of when he was little, or you were little, or whatever he will talk about?
(((((hugs)))))
I hope that whatever works out is what is best. If you cannot go, could you get your mother to record your father for you and for Matt? Get him to tell stories of when he was little, or you were little, or whatever he will talk about?
(((((hugs)))))