PollyParent
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In February my son's fourth grade class is going on a three day two night "Outdoor education" field trip. I think he'd be fine sleeping away from home, that's not the issue, but his behavior and his ability to participate with the class is.
His aide and his case manager have told me that they are not able to attend, and that a parent must. Supposedly if I go, we will have to have a separate cabin from the rest of the class as mothers are not allowed to sleep in the boys cabin. OK fine, so that means that it would have to be his Dad to go.
Except Dad is not as good with son as I am in managing my son's outbursts. Dad tends to push him harder to participate and is more aggressive with him. So I'm concerned about having my son rely on his Dad for the trip, but on the other hand, it could be a great experience for them both.
Keeping him home doesn't quite seem like th right answer either -- it seems as if most of the class will be participating. The outdoor education center is about an hour and half away.
I can't decide whether to figure out a way for him to attend or to pull him from participation. Anybody have any experience with this situation or have any advice?
Thanks
PollyParent
His aide and his case manager have told me that they are not able to attend, and that a parent must. Supposedly if I go, we will have to have a separate cabin from the rest of the class as mothers are not allowed to sleep in the boys cabin. OK fine, so that means that it would have to be his Dad to go.
Except Dad is not as good with son as I am in managing my son's outbursts. Dad tends to push him harder to participate and is more aggressive with him. So I'm concerned about having my son rely on his Dad for the trip, but on the other hand, it could be a great experience for them both.
Keeping him home doesn't quite seem like th right answer either -- it seems as if most of the class will be participating. The outdoor education center is about an hour and half away.
I can't decide whether to figure out a way for him to attend or to pull him from participation. Anybody have any experience with this situation or have any advice?
Thanks
PollyParent